As women we have a list of want we want in a man. That perfect man that will take away that longing of loneliness. The problem with us women is that we have expectations which for a fact are not a bad thing. The problem however is that we are over confident with what we expect to find in a man. You want him to have everything and of course give you a grand wedding and put a ring on your finger for the envy of all your friends. Question is, what are you bringing in the relationship?
There is no way you expect a man to do all this for you and bring nothing to the table. Another thing is that we lie on what we expect to bring to the table. Relationships have become a contract. You buy me a house and I give you a child. Everything is based on assets and material things.
I don’t know whether relationships stopped being about happiness and finding the right person but it has become a profit making venture. If it is a contract that one is looking for,do exactly that. If you want a house or a car, what is stopping you as a woman from acquiring that? Why should you wait for someone else to acquire it for you? This man spend sleepless nights trying to acquire whatever it is that he has, do the same thing.
I know the defense will be that you did not have the same opportunity that he had to acquire…that is hogwash, time to get down and dirty. Complaining doesn’t cut it. It never does, you need to call yourself a strong woman and do things for yourself and that check list that you put up in your life, and yeah it works but nothing in life is on a silver platter. You want the good life, work for it and then you will meet someone along the lines of your hard work you will meet the man that you have a whole checklist on.