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MR RIGHT

Posted: March 29, 2012 in Relationships
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Is there a Mr Right? I mean that one man that makes everything OK in a woman’s world? Simple,there is nothing Right and Perfect in this world. As women searching for that one MR, what is it really that we look for? We grow up with the perception that we want the best of the best. We have so many expectations that we miss the point why we want that man. Why really do women look for a Mr Right? Someone once said that once you get a man who can give you anything,you have to be ambitious and a go-getter to get what you want. Let me break it down; find a man who makes a whole load of cash and make sure that you are part of his investment. There after,make sure that almost all his assets are in your name-mark you,you have to be the most awesome wife in the world,this one needs smart brains and strategy. In the end make sure that you have your own investments to call your own,car,home and business so that incase all hits the fan,you can depend on yourself.

This is the part am not sure I agree with. Women,flip the script,if this was being done to you,you will be the most furious woman the world will ever see. So why in the world do we do this to our men? I mean payback for all that he has done to you is not the best way to look at things. You got married in front of God and man and yet you use your charm to rob someone of their hard earned money for your own gain, GET A JOB, make your own money and investments. Most of the women who do these,have such low esteem issues that they find a way to boost it up by having something of their own to brag to their friends. Yes we like competing with our friends to see who has what and of course make sure that we are in the top league.

You can make something of yourself if you decide instead of being a leech. Now I have missed the point of this article for today. Back to it, no matter what standards or qualifications you are looking for in a Mr Right,you will never get them all in one person. Ever wondered why men choose who they choose regardless of what their friends think and you end up being so shocked at whom they end up marrying?It is because they have no time and no check list to follow. They go with their gut feeling and go for it. By the time you are doing your checklist,you will be old,grey and out of market and don’t forget desperate. If there is a Mr Right,am yet to see one and if anyone sees him please let me know because there must be something wrong with him……